Pet peeve of the day: “weary” vs. “wary”

weary
  1. Physically or mentally fatigued.
  2. Expressive of or prompted by fatigue: a weary smile.
  3. Having one’s interest, forbearance, or indulgence worn out: weary of delays.
  4. Causing fatigue; tiresome: a weary wait.
wary
  1. On guard; watchful: taught to be wary of strangers.
  2. Characterized by caution: a wary glance at the black clouds.

Why do so many people get these two words confused when they’re writing? They’re not even pronounced the same!

4 Responses to “Pet peeve of the day: “weary” vs. “wary””

  1. Matthom Says:

    The English language is full of words like this - similar spellings, similar sounding, or similar meanings.

    It’s amazing I ever learned to use this crazy language.

  2. Kristine Says:

    That bugs me too. People seem to use “weary” for both definitions. Grrr.

  3. Keith Says:

    How about “bear” versus “bare”; as in “bear (endure) a burden” vs. “bare (strip naked) one’s soul”. These two verb forms may be more abused than weary/wary.

  4. Robyn Moody Says:

    I was bugged about the same thing until I checked it in Oxford and found definition 3 of weary to be:
    3 (often weary of) reluctant to experience any more of.
    suggesting some of my past irritation (though not all of it) was unfounded.